Speed dating is an increasingly popular form of dating in the modern world. You no longer have to spend hours browsing online dating sites or idly waiting to meet your "soulmate" in a coffee queue. If you are tempted to try speed dating, we have some tips for you on how to increase your chances of a successful meeting and a serious relationship.
Choose the right speed dating event
How to choose a speed dating event? The right age group is key. People tend to have different life expectations, priorities, and experiences throughout their lives. Twenty-somethings are typically looking for a partner for adventure or shared growth, thirty-somethings are more focused on stability and starting a family, and forty-somethings may be looking for a fresh start after a divorce or a long-term relationship. Events designed for your age group increase the likelihood that you’ll meet people who share similar values, goals, and lifestyles—all of which are the perfect foundation for a serious relationship.
If you want to boost your chances of meeting a compatible partner, try themed speed dating. Themed events focused on travelers, athletes, college students, divorced with children, voluntarily childless, or dog walkers attract singles with similar interests, values, and attitudes.
Thanks to thematic speed dating, you will find common topics more easily and increase the chance that you will fit in with your partner not only as a person, but also in terms of values and life goals. When a couple shares common hobbies, lifestyle and values, the relationship has greater potential for growth. Thematic events are therefore a great opportunity to meet someone who is on the same wavelength as you and "speaks the same language".
Make a great first impression
At speed dating, you only have a few minutes to interest your partner, arouse their curiosity and desire for another date. That is why it is so important to make a good first impression. After speed dating, people will remember above all the feeling they had of you. Therefore, you do not have to dazzle your partner with complex philosophical considerations, boast about your successes or play someone you are not. It is enough to appear warm and friendly – smile, maintain eye contact and listen attentively.
How to enhance a positive impression?
- Take a quick shower before speed dating, brush your teeth and change into clean clothes.
- Pay attention to your appearance and choose clothes appropriate for the event.
- Be positive and kind. Avoid negative topics and criticism.
Prepare topics for conversation
Are you not a master of spontaneous conversations? Are you worried that you will run out of things to say and there will be moments of awkward silence? Or are you an introvert and feel that conversations with strangers are not your thing? Try to think of a few questions and topics in the comfort of your home that will break the ice and help you get to know the other person better. Remember that speed dating is not an interrogation – the goal of your conversation is to create a pleasant atmosphere and see if you are both on the same page.
Try to be original during the date and avoid clichés. Instead of “What are you doing?” try:
- “What have you been really happy about lately?”
- “What movie or book have you been interested in lately?”
- “What do you do in your free time?”
Too personal or controversial topics, such as politics, religion or finances, are not suitable for a first date. Talking about your ex should also be taboo – you could give the impression that you have not yet resolved and closed the past.
Think positively
New people, unfamiliar surroundings, new situations… All of this can cause anxiety – especially if you are introverted and dating is not your hobby. It is natural to feel nervous before speed dating.
You may have a lot of questions running through your head: “Will I make a good impression? Will I be embarrassed? What if I don’t get any contact?” The good news is that you are not alone – most speed dating participants feel the same way. But there is no need to worry. A moderator will guide you through the entire evening – there will be no room for nervousness, moments of awkward silence or standing alone in the corner. You will also only have a few minutes to talk to one other person – if the spark doesn’t fly or you find that you have nothing to say, the time will quickly run out and you will move on.
Also, keep in mind that this is not a life test – speed dating is above all a fun evening during which you have a great opportunity to meet lots of wonderful and single people who, just like you, are looking for a serious relationship. Sometimes you need to step out of your comfort zone and overcome your fears in order to move forward in life and in relationships. Are you ready to step forward?
Just try it
Are you wondering if speed dating is the right thing for you? You won't find out until you try it! Even if you don't find your "soulmate", you will definitely get new experiences, pleasant conversations and maybe even a new taste for dating.
Bottom line. Speed dating is the ideal choice for all singles who don't want to waste time or prefer personal contact to endless chatting on online dating sites. Although it may seem that "speed dating" is more for superficial relationships or flirting, the opposite is true. Speed dating is designed for all singles who are looking for a serious relationship.
Do you want to try it? Come have fun, get to know each other and maybe even fall in love. Book the date of your original date in Prague.








