The first date is usually a mixture of excitement, anticipation, but also nervousness. In addition, if you are going on speed dating, you only have a few minutes to impress your counterpart. We will tell you how to behave on a first date so that you can enjoy the whole evening, stay yourself and leave a good first impression.
Find out what awaits you
If you're new to speed dating, you may feel nervous at first as you venture into uncharted waters. Find out how speed dating works, how much time you will have to talk to one person and how the event will be organized. You will feel calmer and more confident. An experienced presenter will guide you through the entire evening, who will not leave you fumbling. You don't have to worry about standing in the corner while others are having fun. There will be no time for nervousness, boredom or awkward situations.
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Throw in a gala
Before you go speed dating, take a shower, brush your teeth, apply deodorant and throw yourself into the gala. You don't need little black or a suit with a tie, feel free to come in casual but clean and washed clothes. Arriving on a first date in a sweaty t-shirt does not make a good impression.
Arrive on time
Come early enough to sit down and look around. Also choose a suitable date for your date so that you have enough time for hygiene, changing clothes and moving to the speed dating location. Before speed dating, you'd better not plan any work meetings or long calls with clients, handling or other demanding activities - come to the date with a calm and clear mind.
Keep smiling
At the first meeting, greet your counterpart, make eye contact and smile. A smile arouses sympathy and appears friendly. Even though you may have had a rough day, try to put your worries aside and enjoy speed dating.
Prepare questions and answers
What to talk about on speed dating and how to attract a counterpart? Prepare dating questions that you want to ask your potential partner. A great topic for a first date is hobbies and interests, favorite music, books or movies. Also think about what you would tell about yourself briefly and how you would answer the most frequent questions - hobbies, work, family. However, do not forget that you only have 5 minutes for the interview. Don't spend the whole time talking about yourself. Be honest and truthful in your conversation. You don't lie about the number of children, marital status or your profession. The truth will come out sooner or later anyway, and you will pay for your dishonesty by losing trust.
Be yourself
Don't pretend to be someone you're not. Why pretend to be someone else? You can't live in disguise forever anyway. Be honest and authentic in your behavior and opinions. Only then can a real bond be formed between you. Thanks to this, you will also know if your relationship can work and has a chance for the future.
Listen
Pay full attention to what your counterpart is telling you. Don't jump in and let the other person finish. You can occasionally nod or smile to show that you understand. If you are interested in the topic of the talk, ask questions and show your interest and participation. During the call, maintain eye contact, do not wander around the room or look at other couples.
Keep a positive tone
Avoid explosive, uncomfortable or negative topics on the first date. Also avoid talking about your worries or problems, talking about your past relationships or sex is taboo. Try to be positive and relaxed and don't be afraid to show that you have a sense of humor. Humor and positive energy are attractive.
Relax and have fun
Speed dating is not a test you have to pass, nor is it a hunt for a partner. Speed dating is above all fun and an opportunity to meet new, interesting faces. Therefore, forget all worries and nervousness. Come have fun, get to know each other and enjoy the unique atmosphere of the evening. If the mutual spark does not jump, nothing happens. It didn't work out once, it will work out next time.
Don't be afraid to take the first step
If there is a spark between you and your counterpart and the sympathy is mutual, the moderator will exchange your contacts after the end of the evening. How you deal with them is up to you. Don't be afraid to take the first step, send your favorites a short SMS after the evening thanking them for a nice evening and a pleasant conversation. Then you can start planning your next date.
If you haven't booked a speed dating date yet, choose from the available dates. You can choose between classic speed dating without a theme or themed evenings - for athletes, dog lovers, dance lovers, parents with children, divorced people, university students, full-bodied people and many others.