How to know that he is the right one and that he loves me?

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You've met a wonderful man and you have a lot of unanswered questions swirling in your head: "Does he like me? Is he the right man for me? How do I know he loves me?” There are several signs to know that he is the one and that he is interested in you. Read what signals reveal a man in love.

How to know that he likes me?

Sometimes it's hard to tell if a man is just being friendly with you or if he really likes you. How does a man behave when he likes a woman? How do I know they are packing me? How do men flirt? If a man often makes eye contact, looks at you fondly, and seeks physical closeness with you, he probably likes you.

What are some other, less obvious signs of a man's interest that will tell you that it might not just be a show of politeness? He uses a deeper tone when conversing with you because most people find a deeper voice more attractive. He may also try to mirror your gestures and body language or stretch the conversation with various questions and remarks, even if he is more of a quieter person in society. It can also be revealed by the dilation of the pupils, which occurs subconsciously when feeling excited.

How do I know he loves me?

How do men show love? How do you recognize a man in platonic love who is perhaps just afraid to make the first move? Although it is not good to generalize, you can notice several signals that are typical for the stronger sex:

he listens to you, he is interested in how you feel and what you are experiencing;
she accepts you as you are, she has no need to change your style of dressing, hobbies or even friends;
he wants to make you happy, he is interested in what you like;
he likes to spend his free time with you and plans another date;
doesn't leave you hanging when you need help;
he does not assert his opinions and needs at all costs, he looks for a way of mutual compromise.
Eye contact is another sign that men are in love with. How does a man in love look? He often makes deep eye contact with you, often raises his eyebrows, looks at you fondly, flirts with you and swallows your every word.

Men also love physical expressions of love - cuddling, kissing, massages and sex. Thus, at the beginning of a relationship, a woman may not be sure whether a man is primarily interested in sex, or in love and a relationship. If you don't want to be just a one-night stand for a man, you can wait until you get to know each other better before getting intimate. A man in love should not be deterred by your sensitive and reasoned refusal.

How do I know he's just playing with me?
There is no definite guide to knowing true love, especially if you have only been together for a short time. Under the veil of rose-colored glasses, a woman often does not notice that she is more of a temporary pastime for a man and therefore does not take the relationship too seriously. You should pay attention if you:

does not usually write or call on his own, or often "forgets" to write back;
he doesn't care about you or what you're going through right now;
does not plan too far into the future and usually decides on another date at the last minute;
they are scrupulously protective of their privacy;
he does not tell you his feelings or plans, how and with whom he will spend his free time;
talks about a shared future are taboo;
did not introduce you to friends or family;
he doesn't tell you he likes you or that he loves you;
he makes excuses so he doesn't have to spend too much time with you.
Did you find a lot of agreement with your friend's behavior in these points? Then ask him directly how he sees your future together. If he's lying or refusing to answer, he probably doesn't take the relationship seriously and is more likely to enjoy friendship with benefits. When a man loses interest in a woman he once cared about, he can behave the same way.

In this case, there is usually no point in waiting or trying to make him fall in love with you. Why worry about how to charm a man who is not interested? Why waste time with someone for whom you are only an option? You definitely deserve more. Everyone is waiting for someone in their life for whom you will be the only and best possible choice.

The chances of a happy relationship do not end with one disappointment
Even if you are disappointed in a man or find out that he is not the right one, life goes on. Every failure in a relationship moves us forward in life. It reveals our real needs and gives us new experiences on how to do things differently and better. Sometimes we may need to experience more disappointments and failed relationships in order to finally start moving in the right direction.

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Autor: Jakub Žwak